Wednesday, February 29, 2012

A photo essay on the border.

(My partner teacher and I are doing a project with our students called The Walls that Surround Us. We are looking at international borders/ walls, doing a case study on the local US/ Mexico border/ wall, and finally, looking at invisible walls that divide people in our society. As a part of our case study, we took a field trip to the US/ Mexico border.)
As our big yellow school bus approached the border, it was cold and misty, with clouds encroaching in upon us. The border left us feeling the same way as the weather- both had an ominous presence as we exited the bus and waited.
Our tour guide is an activist who works to build cross-border connections, hoping that people on each side of the border will see common humanity in one another. He began to point out that there were two walls and a fence dividing the United States from Mexico; the federal government has been putting a lot of money into building up the border in the past ten years. He spoke of how the increase in the amount of money spent on border enforcement correlates to an increase in deaths of people trying to cross the border. As he was telling us this, Border Patrol drove up to meet us. They let us touch the wall and peer through it. All we could see through the fence was another wall. 
Our next stop was Smuggler’s Gulch, which was given its name during the Prohibition Era, due to the alcohol that was smuggled into the U.S. on this road.
There was growth and beauty at the border, despite it's seemingly destitute ambiance.
Like this picture shows, many people just want paz (peace) at the border instead of separation and death.
The grand finale was Friendship Park, which was established in 1971. It has been a place where people from the United States and Mexico could reunite even though they there was a fence separating them. They could speak through the fence, eat a picnic together, or even embrace each other. Since the second wall has been built in the last couple years, creating a gap that makes it impossible to see let alone communicate with people on the other side of the fence, the park seems less friendly.
The walk to get there was a couple miles along an ecological preserve and the ocean. As we approached Friendship Park, Border Patrol stopped us, telling us that we wouldn’t be able to go into the park, despite our tour guide having spoken to Border Patrol and California State Parks ahead of time. We stood at the bottom of the hill looking up to where we were supposed to be, waiting for permission to walk about 100 more feet. 
We could see that construction was going on; they were working on rebuilding the stretch of fence that went into the ocean. It was the third time in the past ten years they have had to rebuild that part. Not surprisingly, sand isn’t conducive to building border fences. 
Finally after thirty minutes, they let us walk the extra 100 feet and we found ourselves in Friendship Park, looking through two walls to see people on the Mexican side of the border. We waved to each other from afar. The air was heavy, as was my heart. I contemplated how the only thing that really separates me from many people on the other side is the location we were born- one of us in a place with more economic opportunity and the other with less. As a symbol of this division there were two walls dividing us, making it impossible to interact or even make out the faces of those on the other side. 
Earlier in the week, before our field trip, Enrique Morones, who started an organization called Border Angels, came to speak to us. He told us that since 1994, when Operation Gatekeeper was passed and more federal money went into building walls, approximately 10,000 people died trying to cross the border. Some people consider this a human rights issue in our own backyard. Many people immigrate due to economic desperation or to reunite with their families. His organization's goal is to reduce the number of deaths at the border.

As he spoke to my students, he told the story of how he saved two men who were walking through the desert. One of the men had been living in Los Angeles for years, but had to go back to Mexico to bury his mother. He was now on his way back to L.A. to reunite with his family. The grieving man was carrying another man, suffering from dehydration, on his back. Enrique gave them water, and ultimately, saved their lives that day. Enrique works hard to make change in this issue, organizing marches and even meeting with President Obama to encourage him to pass comprehensive immigration reform. He said that people often ask him if he thinks he is actually making a difference, and he always goes back to the story of those two men. As he told my class, though it may seem difficult to make large-scale change, he knows that, on that day, he made a difference to those two men. In fact, the men told him so when they called him two weeks later to say thank you. Enrique went on to tell my class how it is possible to make a small difference that can have a wider-reaching impact, and I hope that in my own small way, I am making an impact by encouraging my students to seek social justice with learning experiences like these.

Saturday, February 25, 2012

Watching the sun set on our city.

Hmmm... what to do on a Wednesday evening when the high is 79 degrees and I can get off work a little early. Happy hour, patio seating on the thirteenth floor of a building near downtown. Two hours of conversation and changing colors on the buildings and in the sky. Watching the planes fly in, and wondering about all of the different places people might be coming from. Usually whenever I see a plane, I imagine myself on it, flying off to have an adventure in some foreign land. But on this day, in this moment, I was happy to be enjoying this city I call home with the one I love.
I loved how the city became progressively darker and then lit up again while the sky set ablaze.

We are on the hunt for all of the spots that offer the best views of San Diego, and this is one of our favorites that we always go back to. I'm sure you can see why.

Thursday, February 23, 2012

On President's Day.

A seaside picnic for two at breakfast. 
Breakfast burritos, coffee, yellow flowers, cacti, and a beautiful view.
The goal was to do some whale watching, but the only wildlife we saw was this bird.

The end of our long weekend also included a British themed living room picnic complete with shepherd's pie, English beer, and other goodies to watch the season finale of Downton Abbey. 

Four day weekends are the best (especially ones that start in the mountains and end at the beach).

Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Becoming.

I kind of see 2012 as my year to prepare myself, my marriage, and my home for welcoming a child. I don't know what that means exactly, but it's something I feel in my heart, this draw to be a mother. There were moments throughout my twenties when I didn't even know if I wanted to have children. Maybe I would be one of those people that chooses having a career over having children, I thought. I spent 2010 praying for my future children, and I ended the year more unsure of motherhood than when I started it. Now, I know deep within my being that I want to be a mother, and I am ever so grateful for this feeling that I wasn't sure would come. One day, when I talk to my child about the moments that led me to becoming a mom, I will mention how so many of my friends had kids before me, and inspired me with the joy and grace that they mothered and fathered their children with. I have been surrounded by so many of these types of friends this year, including this one right here. 
This is my dear friend Laurel with her daughter (and our goddaughter!) Robin. We were lucky enough to see them a couple of weeks ago, despite their living across the country in Tennessee. And this is me attacking Robin's tummy...
a seemingly appropriate ending to an overly serious post.

Monday, February 20, 2012

Family shenanigans.

Family is the best. Sixteen people in one cabin for two nights to celebrate my cousin's eighteenth birthday. There was lots of love, snow, tubing, food, rapping, and late night shenanigans.

Snow angel.
 Alpine slide.
Ready for tubing.
Family chain.
Snowman.
Feeding the ducks.
Jacuzzi on the lake.
Fishing.
Sunset.
Brother.
Birthday cake.
Our celebratory picture after we all jumped into the freezing lake (33 degrees F!) at night. 
We are crazy, fun, and we love each other a lot.